Cocksuckers giving good head need to feel connected

Blow jobs, like sandwiches, come in all sizes, sorts of bread, and fancy frills. I found this extract about good blow jobs and wish i had written this myself.  The wisdom in this advice is applicable to more than blow jobs.

One Feeder, who did wall finishing in homes, told me that he always had work because he enjoyed the challenge of doing a good job; he lived to please his customers just as much as for the money he earned. His customers felt that and referred him on to their friends.

And the waiter, who enjoys serving you and recommends little tips to you, shows that he likes you, gets rewarded with  good tip. Sucking cock is no different.  When you feel that cocksucker doing his best to bring you to full performance, you feel it, and you blast the universe with your powerful cum.

But there is a catch to this advice, which I will save for you at the end.

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 I’ve noticed that a lot of gay men don’t really have a clue when it comes to blowjobs. So, I thought I’d start a series of oral sex posts,  a tutorial if you will,  on the art of cock sucking.

When it comes to giving good head, the first thing you have to consider is how you conduct yourself. You see, one of the secrets of giving good head or getting a hot blowjob from a guy is that you let him know that you like what he’s doing, and if you don’t, then you need to let him know that, too.

When I’m sucking dick I really get turned on when I know I’m making a man feel good. If a guy is just standing there and not saying anything, or not making any noise whatsoever, then I get bored. And if I’m in a bathhouse, then I start thinking about moving on and finding another hot cock to suck.

But if a man moans and groans or says, “Yeah, baby, that feels good,” then I’m inspired to keep sucking. But more important than that, if I deep throat a guy’s cock, for example, and let his cock head press against the back of my throat and he says, “Oh God, I love that,” then I’ve been givien a clue about how this man likes his dick sucked. I can now add this to my cock-sucking repertoire to make this a memorable blowjob for this man.

If I’m not getting any of these verbal clues – and non-verbal physical ones like touching me or looking at me – then I have no idea if I’m doing a good or bad job. And without those indicators, I could suck a man’s dick all day and be doing it wrong, and he’ll never cum.

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A big part of getting and giving good head is listening to and responding to each other. This sexy bald man in these photos is named Marco, and he’s never had his dick sucked by a man before. He showed up at New York Straight Men and resident cocksucker Trey got down on his knees. And this scene really illustrates what I’m talking about because Marco gives Trey all the grunting and groaning clues that he’s enjoying what this cocksucker is doing.cocksucker giving good head

And Marco also doesn’t have a problem telling this nob gobbler exactly how he likes to have his dick sucked, either. In fact at the beginning of this oral-sex scene Marco told Trey that his girlfriend gives excellent head, so he’s really going to have to prove that he’s a good cocksucker. That just gets Trey revved up even more and gives Trey a challenge, and because of that Marco gets a good blowjob.

Here is the catch:  No matter how much you are told what really rewards you, how to be involved and love the cock you have in your hands, this skill has to come from inside you, where knowing is not enough, but where living is to be alive.

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The other night I picked up a man online and I went over to his place to suck his dick. He was a hot, beefy hairy man and as I knelt between his legs and bobbed on his cock, he let me know that I was doing a good job. He stared at me and watched me sliding his hard meat in and out of my throat, he rubbed my head, he held my ears, he moaned and he groaned.

And once we were into it;  he told me that he’d love it if I rubbed my hairy chest on his balls while I sucked his cock. Not really my thing, but if that’s what a man likes, then that’s what a man gets. And because I listened to him, it wasn’t long before he dumped a big load down my throat, and that made me very happy.cocksucker giving good head

So, my first pointer for giving good head is that you have to listen to both the verbal and non-verbal communication coming from your partner, and if you’re the guy getting the blowjob, then you have to make sure you’re conveying this information to your partner. If you lie there like a dead fish, you can expect a mediocre blowjob. And likewise for cocksuckers; if you don’t listen to your partner, you’ll probably never be invited back to suck this man’s dick.

If you’ve been wondering about having a suck buddy, on the side, get in touch. Put STRAIGHT in the message.tell me your age, etc. and we’ll see if we can work something out. Discreet, safe. Thanks.

So what about the guy that lies there like a dead fish while his cocksucker is working hard to please him. A close look at what’s going on behind the scenes reveals that this guy’s wife is the dead fish. Waking up to a body that just lies there while you’re pumping to cum is little better than the watermelon on the kitchen sink. At least you can microwave it to feel hot on your cock. The dead fish guy is role playing what he goes through with his wife. He acts not interested and allows the lowly cocksucker the privilege of performance.

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